Monday, March 16, 2015

If You Don't Have the Money, You Don't Have The Money

There are so many purchases that we make regularly that we often don’t have a line item for in our monthly budgets. Things that occur every few months or bi-annually can be especially tough surprises if we haven’t budgeted for them. Sure it would be great to set aside the money I know I will need the next time both cars need an oil change, but sometimes emergencies come up and you have emergency vet bills, a broken microwave, and a broken cell phone all in the same week. Then I wonder how I will pay for that oil change, haircut, or new pair of black pumps for work. And sometimes what we budgeted for a budget line item (especially groceries and gas but yes, sometimes the cable and phone bill) is much higher than we had planned.

That’s when I have to stop and remember a simple fact: If I don’t have the money, I don’t have the money. If the money I was planning on spending on that haircut has to be spent on a vet bill, then so be it. It can be tempting to dip into that dwindling savings account or swipe that good old American Express to pay for something, but isn’t there another way?

If you can’t afford it now, don’t buy it now. I know, I know, why delay satisfaction when I can just swipe a credit card? I’ll have the money in the future, the next paycheck, or next month’s budget, so I can just pay myself back and make that deposit back into savings or pay back the credit card before the bill comes. But how often do I actually do that? Once it’s swiped, it’s out of my head.

So how can I accept that I can’t pay for something that I had planned on purchasing? Well, first, I ask myself if it is a need or is it a want. When I am honest with myself,  anything that doesn’t shelter me, transport me, feed me, or take care of my health is a want….well maybe my cellphone is a need too. Then, I ask myself if I can do without it until I actually have the money in hand and am not borrowing from next month’s budget or charging it on the credit card. Borrowing from next month’s budget sounds ok, but if you do it enough you will find that you quickly run out of money that next month and have to borrow from the following month too.

Here are some tips for delaying those purchases when you just don’t have the money.

Yes, your ends are dry and splitting and no, you don’t have money for a cut now. Instead, try going to a beauty school rather than a regularly-priced salon to get those tresses tamed. Also try a deep conditioner, wearing topknots or buns, or just try some new hairstyles to keep it looking fresh until the money comes in.

Oil Changes
Are you getting an oil change every 3,000 miles still? Sure, we all remember that Jiffy Lube jingle, but most cars built since 2005 (and some even earlier) can go 6,000 miles between oil changes. Don’t know if your car can? Check the owner’s manual and check the oil indicator light in your dash. Until it’s at 15% or lower, you’re good to go. And if you actually need that oil change but can’t afford it? Look for coupons online to bring the price down or drive as little as possible. Take your significant other’s car to run your errands or ask your friend to swing by and pick you up before girl’s night rather than meeting her there. Maybe even carpool to work with a nearby colleague.

Great Deals at Drugstores
But it’s free with register rewards! This is my favorite kind of toothpaste and it’s only $.50 (after the Target gift card I get with purchase)! We all love deals, otherwise we wouldn’t be Krazy Coupon Ladies. But let’s get real. You probably have tons of toothpaste in your stockpile right now. And if you need that money for something else, like perishable veggies or milk, don’t spend it on adding to your stockpile. It may be a great deal and it’s sad to miss it, but great deals are cyclical and it will come again. The same rule applies to the sale rack at Marshalls. Step away. You can get another skirt when you can actually afford it.

Scuffed Heels
We all have that trusty pair of black pumps that we wear to work every day (and everywhere) and it has seen better days. One day, you look down and realize how scuffed the toe is, the seam is starting to rip, and the heel is almost totally worn off. Is it time to head to the mall for some nice, new, “professional-looking” shoes. Stand in your truth (or your scuffed heels rather). If you can’t afford a new pair of heels, even if there’s a big sale, wait until you can. Get some Kiwi shoe polish and buff out the scuffs. Take those pumps to a cobbler (yes, they are still around) and they can repair the worn heel and ripping seam for just a few bucks, allowing you to get another few month’s of wear out of them. And really, no one is looking that closely at your shoes anyway.

Wednesday, March 4, 2015

Buying Our First Home: Part 1

We are officially homeowners now! My husband and I just closed on our first and we are beaming with boundless excitement, hope, and possibilities that come with buying a home that we hope to grow into for years to come.

Our home buying story began last spring. My husband and I had been talking about "one day when we buy a house" for a few years, especially since we moved to Baton Rouge from Washington, DC two years ago because home prices here are a quarter of what they are in DC (for serious, a quarter of the cost, we checked). Home prices were low and the market was recovering. We kept hearing about historically low interest rates on mortgages and started thinking that maybe that now was the right time. We knew we were settled into Baton Rouge, had friends, knew the town, and planned to stay even after my husband finished his degree.

I knew that I did not know anything about the home buying process and I wanted to become as informed as possible, so I started researching it. I went to the library and read Ilyce Glink's 100 Questions Every First-Time Home Buyer Should Ask: With Answers from Top Brokers from Around the Country cover to cover. It is a bit dated, but has solid advice and information so I would recommend it to any newbie home buyer. I read other books, blogs, and articles on the current housing market, changes in mortgage rates, and other bloggers' home buying stories. I spoke with my friends and family about their experiences and rounded out my education so that I felt comfortable with my understanding of the process. I wanted to make sure that we knew what we were doing and felt comfortable with the purchase process.

Almost 20 years ago, my parents had bought me and both of my sisters stock with $800 that my grandparents' had given to each of us. My parents being the money savvy people they are, they bought stock in a natural resources company which had historically seen a good return from rising stock prices. Thank god they did not put it in a savings account earning less than 1% interest or took us on vacation with the money. My parents told us about the money and told us that they bought stock with it. As a kid, that is a lame Christmas gift. But my parents are known for fiscally responsible albeit lame gifts, like the year that we all got envelopes with IRA paperwork we needed to sign because my folks were opening IRAs for us in minor trust accounts.

I forgot about the stock until last spring when I did our taxes and was entering in the taxable amount of the dividends earned on the stock (we reinvested the dividends so they just kept buying more shares). I do that every year but this year I realized that the stock value had grown to over $5,000, enough to use for a down payment!

My husband and I had many discussions about what we wanted in a home, mostly a backyard and comfortable space to live in and grow into. We also took a look at our budget to figure out how much we could afford to spend monthly on a mortgage note and used online mortgage calculators to roughly determine our price range. We agreed that we wanted to be able to comfortably afford our mortgage on my income alone so that when my husband graduated from school in a couple years we would be able to pay off his debts and our mortgage without stress. That would also leave breathing room for future costs like children.

We got a referral for a great Realtor from friends of ours who had recently bought a new house near us. We had a few calls and emails with him discussing what we were looking for in a home before we went out looking at homes. We are easy to please, no demand for granite countertops and we like dated kitchens and bathrooms. We don't care if it's pink tile, as long as we can move in and comfortably live without having to knock down structurally deficient walls and in a safe part of town, we are happy.

More on our house hunt in the next installment...

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

I Got Paid!: January 2015

Online surveys and mystery shopping get a bad rap. Many people think that they are just scams but there are really some great (and legitimate) companies out there that will pay you for your time and effort. And to prove it, here's what I earned from online surveys and mystery shopping last month, among other endeavors. I completed these mystery shops and surveys in the previous month (or earlier) and received the payment this month. Some of these mystery shops required me to pay something out of pocket to purchase a good or service (which I get to keep) but I was reimbursed for my purchase and was usually paid an additional fee. The amount I earned from mystery shops includes the reimbursement for my purchases.

Mystery shopping usually requires that you purchase something specific from the store you are evaluating for which you are then reimbursed. I usually charge those purchases onto my credit card so that I get rewards points and so that it does not use up my grocery budget for that month. When I am paid for mystery shopping I pay myself back and transfer the amount of money I spent on those mystery shopping purchases back to the credit card. The remainder is my profit.

January 2015
Freelance Writing- $50.00
Blogging/ Ad Revenue- $15.00
Intellishop- $32.15
Sinclair Customer Metrics- $26.28
About Face- $13.00
Rebates- $20.00
Pact- $15.08
Ibotta- $10.00
Shopmium- $.45 (use referral code HGCCMKWQ for a free Lindt chocolate bar when you sign up!)
Gigwalk- $6.00
Field Agent- $23.50
EasyShift- $21.00

Total: $232.46

What did I do with this extra income?

I used this extra cash to make the last payments to my Mom and sister for the rental houses we stayed in while we were in England over the summer for my other sister's wedding! YAY! I was so excited to write those checks. I have never been so happy to give someone money I owed them. I feels great to know that all this hard work has been paying off and two more debts have been scratched off of my list. On to the next one!

Did you make any extra income last month? What are you using your side hustle money for?

Friday, February 6, 2015

Springboard America Review

If you are looking for a survey site that won't ask you the same old questions about your favorite soda or air freshener, check out Springboard America. Springboard America is a legitimate survey site that offers surveys on topics like politics and current events so its not the same repetitive surveys on advertising and commercial products.

They have a high payout threshold of $50, but each survey pays you between $.50- $5.00 so they can certainly add up. And to prove how much they add up to, in April 2014 alone Springboard America paid out $40,000 to survey takers! Wow! Those survey dollars can be cashed out as Amazon e-gift cards, Paypal payments, a check, or a charitable donation. And if you attempt a survey and don't qualify for it you will get sweepstakes entries into their $750 sweepstakes.

I have taken their surveys before and they are not long or complicated. Their interface is easy to use and understand. Surveys are a great way to make some easy extra cash. Not a ton extra and it won't make you rich, but if you steadily take surveys you can make an extra $25-$50 a month if you qualify for enough surveys. That's no slouch for just answering some questions and that's easy extra cash for debt repayment.

Sunday, January 25, 2015

Catching Up

Well then, happy Halloween, Veteran's Day, Thanksgiving, Merry Christmas, and Happy New Year.

It's been a long time hasn't it?

Where the hell have I been?

Traveling for work, busy as hell, sick, working on buying a house (yay!). SO much going on.

The real deal is that I was traveling for three months for work. Its all good stuff, just kept me really busy. Factor in visiting with family and friends over the holidays, coming home in January and promptly getting laid up with a nasty cough and sinus infection, and now my husband and I found a house we love and are under contract to buy it! Phew!

I promise I will be back to this blogging business now that I am home and normal-ish life is returning. I've still been plugging away at debt, saving money, making money, and loads of mystery shops. I'll be doing some upcoming posts on the progress I've made in 2014 on our debt and mystery shopping companies that I have working a lot for so keep an eye out for that.

If there is anything that you really want me to cover about personal finance, mystery shopping, making money online, or other blogging topics please shoot me an email at I want this blog to offer helpful information to help you live your best frugal life and if you need something, let me know!

Monday, December 8, 2014

3 Early Christmas Shopping Budget Pitfalls and How to Avoid Them

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Black Friday has some great deals! And Cyber Monday’s sales are stupendous! By late November, the deals are all around you and life is awash in blinking “sale” signs. We all love a good deal and have a budget we have to plan around, so shopping these sales seems like the logical choice right? Get a good deal and get the shopping done so we can focus on other things like spending time with family, mailing out greeting cards, and baking delicious holiday treats. But watch out! There are still ways that shopping early can derail your plans for an easy, frugal holiday.

The Sales Keep On Coming
Everywhere you look there are more sales, all December long. Every time you set foot in any store, turn on the television, log into your email, browse online, or even walk down the street in a commercial district, the sales are begging you to shop them. And since retailers really want your cash they are offering some legitimate bargains. “Oh look, little Johnny has been wanting that train set and it’s 50% off now! Mom would love that sweater!” Being constantly bombarded with sales may make you want to buy another gift that the recipient may legitimately really like, but alas, you have already bought them a gift. If you want to keep your budget in check, return the item you already bought or pass up the new sale.

Pre-Purchase Leads to the Illusion of More Available Money
You planned and budgeted your Christmas shopping money, carefully saving all year to be able to afford those special gifts for those special people. Once those gifts have been bought and the savings depleted, we bask in the momentary glory of our budget victory. Our November and December regular monthly budget hasn’t been touched! Then come the remaining weeks before Christmas when we begin to shop again, using our regular monthly budget to add supplemental gifts because we think we can afford it since we weren’t feeling the pinch. Remember, you set a gift budget and saved for a reason. If that reason was to make sure to not overspend so that you can keep paying off debts or save for a family vacation, don’t put those plans in jeopardy just because you’re feeling jolly.

One for You, One for Me
When everyone else has been taken care of, it is quite customary for our minds to drift back to ourselves. That list has everyone and everything checked off, you feel a sense of accomplishment, and when walking out of the mall you spy those shoes that would be a perfect gift for yourself. Self-gifting is a concept that retailers love and are doing a heavy marketing push for this year. After everyone’s gift is bought, don’t fall into the trap that now is the time to buy yourself something shiny and new too.

Just how do you avoid these early shopping budget pitfalls?

Take your Christmas Gift Shopping List with You.
Whenever I see a brilliant gift idea for someone, I look at my list. If that person is crossed out and their gifts have been purchased, then I jot down the idea on the back of the list for next year. Sales are cyclical and that item will be on sale again next year.

Watch Out for the Greed Trap
When shopping for others we can often get greedy and desire new gifts as well and so we go out and buy them for ourselves. But that can lead to budget busting and guilt, especially when we realize we were cheap about a gift we gave someone else and look down at our more expensive new shoes. Remember to enjoy the concept of gift giving for what it is, giving a gift to someone because it will bring them joy or fill a need they have. Side stepping a feeling of entitlement and focusing on the gift giving can allow you to walk out of the store without extra gifts for yourself. Besides, most of us will also be receiving gifts this year and not filling our homes with gifts we bought ourselves will allow us to appreciate the gifts others bought us, and allow us to keep from having to make a lot of returns because they gave us just what we wanted and which we had already bought ourselves. And if that thing we really wanted isn’t under the tree this year? Well, that’s what after Christmas sales are for.

Track Your Spending

On my Christmas shopping gift list I put next to each person’s name what I intend to buy them and how much I intend to spend to stay on budget. When I buy them an item, I jot down what I bought (because sometimes I change my mind and get them something else entirely) and the amount I actually spent (because hopefully it was on sale and under budget!). Then I keep tallying up that total so I can see how much I have spent on each person and as a whole. Seeing the numbers right in front of me helps to curb excess spending.

Monday, November 3, 2014

Why Rent to Own is a Trap

In my entire adult life, college included, I have never paid more than $50 for a sofa. Seriously, that's what Craigslist is for. That and friends that are moving and need to sell all their posessions right out of their storage unit. I am absolutely willing to pay $50 for that blue sofa (for some reason I keep buying blue sofas over and over again). My friend needed the cash and I needed a new place to sit my bum.

I bought my first couch when I was 22, freshly graduated from college, and was moving into my first place that I had to furnish since I was no longer just renting a room. My boyfriend (now husband) and I were moving in together, along with a few other friends, and my boyfriend's recliner and television console were all the furnishings we had for the living room. My parent's gave me their old dining room table and chairs, antiques actually, that they had kept for just such an occasion since they knew one of their daughters would want it when they got their own place. That left us with a gaping hole in the living room that only a couch would fill.

I knew exactly what to do to get a couch. No, I didn't drive down to Ikea or Marlo. I went online and checked out Craigslist. Being in DC, there was always a multitude of people moving in and out of the city and there was always loads of furniture to be gotten at a good price. A few emails and calls later, I had secured a haggled deal for a blue pull out couch, living room rug, and side table all for $50. My friend offered to drive me to pick them up with his pickup truck and an hour later we had it all moved into the house. Done and done. I knew I couldn't afford fancy furniture and Craigslist is what was expected from someone my age and in my financial situation.

Over the years I have acquired a few loveseats and sofas from friends that were looking to give them away or needed a few bucks for them and I was glad to make the deal. Yes, nothing matched. But that's what slipcovers are for.

Fast forward a few years and now I am thirty, married, have two dogs, and want matching furniture. Why is it that just because I am older I think that I am entitled to something fancy like matching furniture? Keeping up with the Jones just causes envy. I have friends now that have bought their own houses (want), have nice, new, and matching furniture (want), cars less than 8 years old (want), and babies (want). I feel that these are my peers, my equals. Shouldn't we be able to have the same things? No. That's the trap. Just because I want something doesn't mean I am entitled to it. Sure, my peers have that thing, but it doesn't mean that I can afford it. Hell, it doesn't even mean that they can afford it even though they own it.

Being an adult means thinking through the choices I make and making responsible decisions. It does not mean that I am entitled to anything. That's childish. But this concept of getting what you want no matter what you can or can't afford, is just how rent to own companies make their (many) dollars.

So you want that matching furniture set or even just a new couch that someone else hasn't sat/slept/drooled/gotten dog hair on. Say you also want a new washer dryer set because yours is grimy/old/yellow/or just broke. Maybe football season is in mid-swing and your television just broke and you are having friends over to watch the game this weekend. Nevermind that you have bad credit and no money saved. If you want it, someone is willing to sell it to you for a (big) price. It's ok. You're entited to it. You're an adult. Go ahead and throw your money out the window. You'll end up paying much more for that couch than it's worth and still not own it. Have fun with that matching loveseat and couch. I'm sure it's worth it. Me? I'll just be here on my old blue couch, trying to live like an actual adult and within my means.

Check out this article from the Washington Post for more on this. Take heed people. Warn your friends. Rent to own is a trap, just like entitlement.